Having a Child
Having a kids, I realized we cant complain, cry, be tired. If we complain, people will say "who told you to have kids?". If we cry, people will just say "Why are you crying? Who said having kids are easy?". And if we feel tired, people will say "Tired of what? Your only in the house and doing nothing." If you see me sleeping I always hear "You're lazy!" I sleep because I came for 8 hours shift plus 4 hours of travel. So basically I'm tired. When I was working, I keep hearing "who will take of your baby? The baby will grow to knowing that the nanny is his mother." When I quit my job to take care of my son, you say "How will you support your child?" So what do you really want me to do? Support my son or take care of my son? When I become a housewife, can't hear anything just "What is your wife doing? Always resting and just in room with kids". I'm not resting actually, I