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According to Relationship Help,  "A strong, healthy relationship can be one of the best supports in your life. Good relationships improve all aspects of your life, strengthening your health, your mind, and your connections with others. However, if the relationship isn't working, it can also be a tremendous drain. Relationships are an investment. The more you put in, the more you can get back." A true relationship is when you can tell each other anything and everything. No Secrets and No Lies. The best way to have a good relationship is having a good communication. You can tell everything to your partner, not only the good stuff but also the bad stuff. Below are words the that can ruin your Relations: You don’t love me like I love you Problems can creep in when we start to have thoughts of “do I love him more than he loves me?” All the ways we express our love and how much time and energy we’re putting into the relationship. Then we try to figure out if our lover...

Love is a very difficult word to define, perhaps because its reality approaches spiritual dimensions, which are beyond time and space, and thus, our comprehension. Love remains an unknown phenomenon and it should be one of the most known, because love is the food of the soul. Love is perhaps more easily described by what it is not. Hate, embarrassment, confusion, jealousy, fear, pain, bitterness, separateness, lust, attachment, aggressiveness, ego-centeredness, indifference, possessiveness, suppression, etc. Love, like God, peace and other spiritual realities, can be perceived more easily through the effects that it creates. We cannot see the wind, but we can see its affects. Such as the leaves moving, branches swaying, or the sound of air rushing. We know wind exist by its various sole effects. We know there is a creator because we perceive its effect creation itself. The emotion of love is the same regardless of who you feel it for. You want them to be happy, you a...

You are so much in love with your companion, but are the two of you are friends? Now that you have fallen in love with that person, has it made you lose the friendship you might have had at very beginning of the relationship? If you find yourself not treating them as a friend and only as a lover, you might need to develop a friendship with your partner again. Some of the most wonderful relationship is the ones that the two people are still friends, as well as lovers. How do you keep the friendship in your relationship, now that you have crossed that line to become lovers? Once you fall in love with someone you tend to start acting differently towards them and that is how you lose the friendship. We should not start acting differently with our partners. Then way that you communicated with each other in the very beginning is the same way you should continue communicating as the relationship develops. In the beginning you talked to each other like friends do when they are getting to...

Why does it comes to our life that sometimes we must think twice?  Maybe we are afraid that we might pick the wrong decision and regret it for the rest of your life.  Have you ever felt that you have been so stupid over someone and yet we call it crazy? And never thought how stupid we become until we felt that we’ve been hurt. Why after all the bad things you’ve been through to someone and it hurt you as if no one else did, still do you say… “I still love him”, stupid right? Sometimes we was confused if will ever listen to what’s going on our mind or from the feelings we have in our heart. They say that love conquers all… Yeah right!!! Sometimes you feel that they love you, but they have another love of their life. And sometimes you fell for your friend, you feel that you’re deeply in love with each other but you’re too afraid to let it show because you fear of rejection? If you love someone, show him or her and say so. Sometimes there was a situation that...

Romantic Love is a relationship where you have deep feeling of connection to another person. You accept them as they are, want them to feel good, and deeply appreciate who they are. They fit in with most of your preferences in a life partner. Like for example the personality, life, goals, beliefs and value system, etc. One of the ways you desire to express your love for them through your sexuality. Sex is one key element that distinguishes a romantic relationship from all other types.  Romantic Love is the love that man and woman “in love” share. It includes our sexuality experiences, but it is not all about sexuality. It is very possible to have sexual relationship in whish there is really no authentic love of any kind… Sex can be just a physical act of pleasure; it depends on how you feel it. Romantic love is all about the possibility of having an intimate relationship in which all facts of a person’s being are unite with another, by emotion, spiritual and physical....

Love in the heart was not meant there to stay. Love is not loved till you give it away. For love to be everlasting and eternal, everyone should be aware of different stages of love and know its significance. Following are the different stages which you will travel in your love life and only those who pass it will have an endless love.  Attraction Attraction can be defined as something, which is more than friendship and is a step towards getting ready for a relationship. It has two types: the physical and emotional attraction. The physical attraction happens when your body reacts to another person. Heart rate increases; temperature rises, palms get sweaty; stomach flutters; throat tightens; etc. This is what will tell you that you are ready for the first contact and also whether you are comfortable in the company of the other person. While the emotional attraction, develops next if the circumstances are right. After being drawn to a person physically, you then be...

The greatest pain in life is not to die, but to be ignored. To lose the person you love so much to another who doesn’t care at all. To have someone you care so much is having throw party and not tells you about it. Your best friend neglects to invite you on his graduation. A person thinks that you don’t care. The greatest pain in life is not to die, but to be forgotten. To be left in the dust after another’s great achievement. Never get a call from a friend. When you show someone your innermost thought and they laugh in your face. For friends to always be too busy to console you when you need someone to lift your spirits. When it seems like the only person who cares about you, are you. Life is full of pain, but does it ever get better? Will people ever care about each other, and make time for those who are in need? Each of us has a part to play in this great show we call life. Each of us has a duty to mankind to tell others that we love them. If you d...

Maybe God wanted us to meet the wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift. Maybe when the door of the happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us. Maybe the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had. Maybe it is true that we don’t know what we have got until we lose it, but it is also true that we don’t know what we have been missing until it arrives. Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don’t except love in return, just wait for it to grow in their heart, but if it does not be content it grew in yours.  It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, b...

Love is such a diffuse “feeling”, and it can become so intensive, that it must have his “natural” and important reason, maybe in the survival of the human race. What is the primary effect of it, when the strategy of approaching is successful and it allows the lover to reach his target? It is the formation of a new relationship. We could say that love exists with the target of increasing the chance of new sexual contacts and in this way the survival of the human race. On other hand, it is all so easy. Does love exist only to spread our genes? It is unlikely, because love is theoretically not necessary for a sexual relationship. Moreover, love tends to reduce the number of sexual relationship and romance, because it favors a stable love affair. In addition, not all love’s relationships end with a child.  It is unlikely that the primary function of love is reproduction, even if this can be a secondary possible consequence. To understand better why love plays an important ro...