Reality of Love

Why does it comes to our life that sometimes we must think twice?  Maybe we are afraid that we might pick the wrong decision and regret it for the rest of your life. 

Have you ever felt that you have been so stupid over someone and yet we call it crazy? And never thought how stupid we become until we felt that we’ve been hurt. Why after all the bad things you’ve been through to someone and it hurt you as if no one else did, still do you say… “I still love him”, stupid right?

Sometimes we was confused if will ever listen to what’s going on our mind or from the feelings we have in our heart. They say that love conquers all… Yeah right!!!

Sometimes you feel that they love you, but they have another love of their life. And sometimes you fell for your friend, you feel that you’re deeply in love with each other but you’re too afraid to let it show because you fear of rejection? If you love someone, show him or her and say so.

Sometimes there was a situation that there’s someone in your life and you could say he’s or she’s the one and you can say that you’re deeply in love with him or her. You give all your trust on him or her then suddenly it’s gone because you found out that he or she is cheating on you. Of course, you can’t help to think that he or she might do this to you again. Now, telling you this promises that you’ve heard a million times before, how can you put your trust back.  I just have to say we can do crazy things for the one we love, except to give all of our trust. For short, it’s really hard to trust someone again once you’ve lost it. I guess it takes time.

What about the situation that you want to break-up with your partner? However, there is something keeping on holding back, like having the fear of getting him or her hurt. On the other hand, you be hurt and regret it later that you did it?  Sometimes we can’t blame ourselves for ending a relationship, maybe on the side of those who have been hurt you’re bad and it’s easy for you to do it. However, I do not think so.

It’s also really hard to break someone’s heart without wanting to. Sometimes you don’t intend it but still he or she been hurt. However, you still have to do it right than to cause much more pain. 

Moreover, sometimes you felt that you’ve given all you’ve got to give and still it isn’t enough.  Still it doesn’t work right.  Or doesn’t receive anything in return. It’s the matter of giving, don’t assume that you’ll receive much more of what you except. 

Sometimes there are situation that you love two people in the same time. You love your girlfriend but still the other girl has the qualities you like. It’s very hard to choose right? Well grow up! You’re being selfish! You have to choose just one person; learn to accept the fact that there is always a crowd.

Then there is a situation that suddenly you will remember your ex-lover. Reminiscing all the good time, you’ve shared together. Somehow, you miss him or her right. You know that you can’t forget someone you loved. You may want to, but you can’t. Love cannot be forgotten no matter how hard we try, and how much we think it will ease the pain. It will always be there, forever. Then while thinking of your ex-lover you feel there is emptiness inside of you and you can’t hide it. Your thinking whether your going to do something or not, because you might be wondering maybe he’s or she’s happy with someone else arms. Or maybe you are scared to lose your pride. 

How about to the person that been hurt, without absolutely idea why they’ve been hurt. And maybe still figuring out the reason of their break-up. We usually tend to smile but behind those mask we are dying to cry. Sometimes we make our self-drunk with our fellow friends or getting out of town and do something as a relief to you for a while. I believe that’ how it goes. Anyway, don’t worry there’s someone out there who’ll be the one to ease your pain. Just widen up your eyes so you will see. You’ll never know, maybe the person beside you might be the one who can spend the rest of your life with. Hmmm… Maybe eventually, the person you lost would probably realized what they’re lost. It’s not your loss, it’s theirs other says. We truly never know what we’ve got till it’s gone. You’ll realize everything at the end not at the beginning. The lesson is always learning in the end of the chapter.

Why do we never think the person that we loved is the one that could hurt us most? Okay lets put it these way. You will never feel the pain if you never feel how to love. Sometimes we prefer to be hurt right. Love is the greatest feeling in the world. But it hurts when it goes away. The feeling of being in love is so beyond awesome, its an indescribable feeling that you never want to lose. In our point of our lives, we should be thankful to have someone who’ll never let us go. Someone who’ll love us even more. And someone who’ll cherish us for the rest of our lives.

Lesson of love could bring us so much pain. Of course, you are going to get your heart broken. And it isn’t just going to happen once but a lot. That’s just a part of growing up. And it makes you stronger. I guess God just let us meet few people that goes in and out of our lives. And those times might be unforgettable ones. Taught us lessons in these insane world of love, the more we’ve been hurt, the more we gain the lesson’s. Learn from your mistakes. But one thing is for sure. We’ll know how to get up again when we fall then you can handle it better. Don’t be afraid to give yourself a chance to love again. Don’t look back and look for the qualities from the past love to someone new. We’re different kinds of people and has different personalities. And who knows, there’s much more you can see in these person, that you can never think of. Ending relationships doesn’t mean it’s the end of the story in a book but it’s the beginning of a new chapter in life. Remember, if someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they loved you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them. 

Love never keeps as promise with a word such as “forever”. It’s not just a word that is easy to say. It’s also a place for us to get there. Actions speaks louder than words. 

Now as I sat in my desks, wondering, listening to the radio… playing the old school song, which is for sure one of our favorite love songs of all the time… such as all my life, it might be you, etc… There are lines that keep circling like butterflies on my head, wondering who might be the love of my life. No one could tell… no one knows… God only know…

These are just some of the situations in love. I can’t say that I’m the one of these people who knows all things about love. I’m just saying this cause I’ve learnt from them a lot. Somehow, I will cherish this lessons that left those scars from my past. Lessons that will teach me over and over. I guess its truly in the matter of our choice in life. 

Love is feeling like your in heaven, but it can also hurt like hell. But one thing is for sure, you’ll learn to let go and love someone else more than you ever did before. This time it might be extra special. Do something wonderful this day for it will never come again. Don’t live life with regret, take chances, make mistakes. Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck.

Happiness and that’s the only thing you can gave yourself anyway. When problems are so big and your strength ends, the grace of God begins.