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Having a kids, I realized we cant complain, cry, be tired. If we complain, people will say "who told you to have kids?". If we cry, people will just say "Why are you crying? Who said having kids are easy?". And if we feel tired, people will say "Tired of what? Your only in the house and doing nothing." If you see me sleeping I always hear "You're lazy!" I sleep because I came for 8 hours shift plus 4 hours of travel. So basically I'm tired. When I was working, I keep hearing "who will take of your baby? The baby will grow to knowing that the nanny is his mother." When I quit my job to take care of my son, you say "How will you support your child?" So what do you really want me to do? Support my son or take care of my son? When I become a housewife, can't hear anything just "What is your wife doing? Always resting and just in room with kids". I'm not resting actually, I...

Measles is an infectious viral disease causing fever and a red rash on the skin, typically occurring in childhood. Measles is cause by Rubeola Virus that can destroy respiratory tract that can spread all over your kids body system. Rubeola, is also called the 10-day measles or  red measles. According to Dr. Ruby Constantino ng DOH, there are almost 2 million Filipino kids that are high risk of having measles due to lack of immunization. Measles are airborne so it is easily transmitted to your child. Having your child regular vaccination will help them to catch this disease. Remember if there is also an outbreak, don't go to places that is crowded. And if you really need to go out remember to wash your hands and gargle when you got home before kissing or touching your child.  Signs of Measles High Fever which begins about 10-12 days after exposure to the virus, and lasts 4-7days Runny nose Dry Cough Inflamed Eyes Sore Throat Koplik's spots - it is a...

What will you do when your son tells you that he wants you to be with him? He wants you to stop working just to be with him. This is the moment that every mother wants to cry. You feel weaken, disappointed, and best of all you feel that you don't give everything to him to feel he is loved. Now a days mothers need to work, to help their partner in financial. It's a good idea to help your children make the connection between a job and money, which is something they don't immediately understand . Explaining that you need to earn money to pay their school or to have food on the table is a great opportunity to teach your child about how the world works and how to value money. Talking to your child about your work will requires time, energy, patience and persistence. Just remember that give more time to your child rather than your work. If it is not necessary for your to take overtime just go home and have some fun with your child. Try to at least see him before going to bed ...

Your child maybe ready to start potty training if he senses the urge to pee and poop, and he asks for a diaper change. Other signs are: Has regular, soft, formed bowel movements Can pull his pants up and down Imitates other's bathroom habits like to watch you go to the bathroom, wants to wear underwear, and so on Makes physical demonstration when he's having a bowel movement such as grunting, squatting, or telling you. Has words for stool and urine Can follow simple instructions such as "Give me the toy" Understand the physical signals that mean he has to go and can tell you before it happens Dislikes the feeling of being in a dirty nappy Has "dry" periods of at least three or four hours, this shows his bladder muscles are developed enough to hold his urine in and store it Isn't negative about everything Understands the value of putting things where they belong Demonstrates a desire for independence.

Diarrhea is caused by a host of bacterial, viral, protozoa and parasitic organisms most of which are spread through contaminated water. Diarrhea is one cause of dehydration and can result to death. WHAT CAN YOU DO? Ensure your baby gets plenty of fluids When an infant has diarrhea, continue breast-feeding. When bottle feeding, dilute cow's milk with twice the normal amount of water. Consult your doctor, especially when the diarrhea persists for more than two days in a child.

According to Mead Johnson, "Language  plays a very important role in a child's intellectual and social development and encompasses the four principles of communication: listening, speaking, reading and writing." As your baby grows, they also learn how to communicate with you. They are studying all your actions and interpret it with their language. Example they cry and you will came to pick them up.  Your baby need language to communicate with you and other people. Language development is a way for you and your child to have communication. Example, when you look at your baby and play a peek-a-boo your baby will smile or laugh. Your baby will learn to play peek-a-boo with you, setting the stage for using language for social skills. According to Sheila Viesca, " The environment plays a key role in a child's ability to learn language. His experiences at home, school, and the community will determine the extent of learning." As a parent you need to provide ...

Having a baby is truly an amazing experience. It is a gift of love between mother and child that compares to no other. Naturally, as a  mother, you want only the best in life for your child but having a baby can be a time of anticipation, excitement and, for many new parents, uncertainty. Here are the stages of your child and learn how they communicate with you. NEWBORNS Newborns usually imitate your facial expressions. Example stick out your tongue and he'll do the same. They can also  identifies their parents by smell and can pick out their mother's breast milk from that of other mothers. 1 TO 3 WEEKS Baby usually can recognize their parents voice. FIRST MONTH Your baby can raise his head a little when lying face-down. He can also keeps his hands fisted.  When you show him some toys he can follows it with his eyes up to the midline. He can makes throaty and gurgling sounds. Some babies can make sounds such as uhhh, ohhh. Your baby also can smile at ...

According to Dr. Fina Lopez, DMD, "White dots are usually warning signs that the tooth is starting to decay." If they are chalky white, it means the tooth has lost its luster; therefore, some minerals have been lost. All efforts should be focused on bringing back lost minerals to the teeth. WAYS TO BRING BACK LOST MINERALS TO THE TEETH  Eat food that's high in calcium and phosphate Brush your teeth regularly with fluoridated toothpaste Visit you dentist for more advice Employing more aggressive preventive strategies to encourage the reversal of the impending tooth decay. On the other hand, when new teeth erupt there may be a small or large white spots that are smooth and shiny on your teeth. These spots formed during development are called Enamel Hypoplasia or Hypocalcification . The presences of white dots definitely means it's time for your daughter to pay a visit to dentist soon.

DTAP Vaccine are compose of 3 vaccines in 1 shot. The 3 vaccines are diphtheria, tetanus and pertussis. It's given as a series of 5 shots. Diphtheria  is a disease that attacks the throat and heart. It can lead to heart failure. Diphtheria can be transmitted through close contacts via airborne respiratory droplets. It can also spread by objects with contaminated by the infected person. Tetanus,  also known as lockjaw, is a serious but preventable disease that affects the nerves and muscles. This can be transmitted through open wound or cut. Wounds contaminated with soil, saliva, or skin punctures from nonsterile needles are also at high risk. Pertusis , also known as whooping cough, it is a disease that infects the respiratory system. It is usually gives the symptoms of coughing with a "whooping" sound when it is breath in.We can avoid this by knowing some of simple symptoms such as runny nose, sneezing, mild cough, and low fever. You can observe your child for abou...

Zechariah Ethan on his first week When I gave birth to my son, most people around me suggest to remove those pillows, teddy bears or animal stuff toys, and bumpers because it may cause suffocation for my little boy. My friends also told me that there are chance for Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SID) for younger babies if I have pillows beside my babies crib. As a new parent, I follow some suggestions like removing those animal stuff toys in his crib. Why? Am I afraid of the SID? Maybe but I'm  much of concern about the dust that the toys will give to my baby. It can cause skin allergies to my baby or worst it can give him some bacteria. Having pillow helps him to sleep well. He likes it when two long pillows are beside him. I also notice that it helps him to breathe when his head is elevated by the pillow. I think having a pillow or not at a younger age will depend on the ability of the child and of course with the help of their parents. All babies are different an...

All babies cry this is perfectly normal. It's how they communicate. Babies can't tell us what they want, so they cry to attract your attention. A crying baby can be exhausting and stressful. Especially when your baby cries at night. The last thing you should do is lose your temper. Shouting at or getting rough with a baby won't stop him to cry it will only make it worse. However tired or desperate you feel, never shake your baby. Shaking a baby won't help matter and is very dangerous. Cause Hungry . Sometimes baby cry because they are hungry. Learning to recognize the signs of hunger will help you start your baby's feedings before the crying stage. Some signs to watch is fussing, smacking of lips, rooting, and putting their hands to their mouth. You can also try putting your finger in front of his lips and see if your baby starts to suck. If yes, your baby is hungry or might still be hungry. Babies need much more frequent feeds than an adult and it's easy...

What is a Vaccine? A vaccine is a medicine that's given to hep prevent a disease. Vaccines help the body produce antibodies. These antibodies protect against the disease. Vaccines not only help keep your child healthy, they also help all children by stamping out serious childhood disease.  Vaccines are made from the same germs that cause disease. Examples Measles vaccine is made from measles virus; and Haemophilus Influenzae Type B (Hib) vaccine is made from parts of Hib bacteria. But the germs in vaccines are either killed or weakened so they won't make you sick. Are Vaccines Safe? Vaccines are generally quite safe. The protection provided by vaccines for outweighs the very small risk of serious problems. Vaccines have made many serious childhood diseases today. Vaccines are given to your child's to increase immunity to the bacteria before it has a chance to make you sick. What are the Side Effects? Mild temporary side effects such as fever, soreness or a lump under...

Vitamin B1 also known as thiamine, helps convert blood sugar into energy to fuel the body.It also involved in releasing energy from carbohydrates and in the development of accetylcholine, a nerve conduction chemical. It ensures the health of the mucous membranes, and make sure that the nervous system and cardiovascular and muscular functions are working well. It also stabilizes the appetite and promotes growth along with good muscle tone.    If your expecting a child, deficiency in vitamin B can lead to abnormal growth and development in children. Symptoms of deficiency in thiamine Fatigue Irritability Depression Poor Concentration Decreased appetite Nausea Abdominal Discomfort Symptoms of Moderate deficiency Poor weight gain or weight loss Vomiting Tingling of the fingers and toes Weakness Muscle cramping Diarrhea Hoarseness of speech Eye drooping Decreased reflexes Symptoms of Severe deficiency Seizures Heart failure Heart arrhythmia Loss o...

Iron ensures that the blood is healthy. So it can deliver oxygen to the body's tissues. Oxygen helps produce energy that kids need to perform their activities. It also plays an important role in fighting infections, brain development and growth. Less iron in the body can  effect to iron-deficiency anemia and can affect the growth of the child and may lead to learning and behavioral problems. Vitamin C can help your body absorb iron, so it is a good idea to pair iron-rich foods with foods that have a lot of vitamin C, including citrus fruits and iron-fortified orange juice. It is best to eat a diet supplying enough iron in order to stay healthy. To improve iron levels it is recommended that you eat a variety of foods that contain iron everyday. How Much Iron Do Kids Need? Infants with full-term and normal-weight have developed iron stores that can last them until 4 to 6 months. While premature baby don't spend as much time in the uterus of their mother to get nutrients that t...

A tantrum is really about your toddler realizing that he or she is a separate person, with their own voice and views who does not want to be told what to do by anyone; not you, not his or her friends, not by relatives or even not by their grandparents. For this reason when your toddler feels he or she is losing control for any reason, they become overwhelmed by their feelings, and feel a flood of emotions, which triggers a tantrum. Claire B. Kopp, professor of applied developmental psychology at California's Claremont Graduate University, attributes much of the problem to uneven language skills. "Toddlers are beginning to understand a lot more of the words they hear, yet their ability to  produce  language is so limited," she says. When your child can't express how she feels or what she wants, frustration mounts. WHY YOUR CHILD HAS TANTRUMS? FATIGUE OR HUNGER When your child is very tired or hungry it is more likely he could get overwhelmed and go into a rag...

A fever is a good thing. It means your child's immune system is doing it's job by fighting an underlying cold or another infection. The brain commands the body's temperature to rise, which in turn directs the white blood cells to attack and destroy invading viruses and bacteria. FIRST RESPONSE As a parent, what you should do about a fever depends largely on your child's age and the reading. If he's less than three months old, anything above 38ºC warrants a quick call to the doctor. Because an infants immune system isn't fully developed, he's vulnerable to potentially life-threatening infections like bacterial meningitis and pneumonia , and an elevated body temperature is often the only symptom. Between three and six months, your child needs to be examined by his pediatrician once his fever hits 38.3ºC, says Steven Shelov, M.D., editor-in-chief of American Academy of Pediatrics' Caring for your Baby and Young Child. Once your child is older t...

During your baby's first three months, there will be a lot of changes. At first, it may feel like an endless cycle of feeding, comforting and changing diapers. But soon, you'll settle into a routing and begin to delight in your baby's growth and development. Part of the wonder of parenting is watching, recognizing and reinforcing changes in your little bundle of joy. Most babies reach certain milestones at around the same age but infant development is not an exact science. Expect your baby to grow and develop at his own unique pace. As you get to know your baby, you should look out for these general infant development milestones. Newborns are sensitive to the way you hold, rock and feed them. By age 2 months, your baby may smile on purpose, blow bubbles and coo when you talk or gently play together. Your baby may even mimic your facial expressions. Soon your baby will reach for you when he or she needs attention, snuggling in your arms for security and comfort. MOTOR ...

Being a Mom we usually think when will be the best time to wean our baby's pacifier. Even though we think we should wean their pacifier we don't know how to do it.  Here are some tips on how to remove your child's habit. Cut the Tip : Usually more moms are doing this trick. Parent's usually cutting off the tip of their child's pacifier. After the ability to suck is removed, many children quickly lose interest on it. We can motivate our child by telling that the their pacifier is broken and make them throw it away. If this doesn't do the trick you can try slicing a little part of the pacifier just to remove the sucking ability of the pacifier then let him try. Usually his the one who will tell you that it is broken. Show him that you cannot fix it or rather change it. Keep it for days until he doesn't show any interest. Swapping : Usually pacifier soothes your child emotion. Sometimes it gives them comfort, so I suggest try to swap or replace it with ...

ENCOURAGE CRAWLING Crawling is an important gross motor milestone because it improves shoulder girdle muscle strength, abdominal muscle strength, and pelvic muscle strength. It also mimics the reciprocal movement of walking. Crawling not only ensures that your child develops well-aligned legs and knees for walking and running, but it also helps strengthen his shoulders for better control when it comes to tasks using the hands and arms, such as hand writing and even throwing a winning pitch. GO FOR A SWIM Every child is born with swimming reflex, wherein he automatically 'paddles' both arms and legs for propulsion when placed tummy down in the water. This disappears approximately after three months of age. However, playing in the water helps your child feel different sensations such as buoyancy and hydrostatic pressure, which in turn, facilitates movement as well as balance reactions. As you r child learns how to blow bubbles in the water or hold his breath when his hea...

Cook it up! A kiddie kitchen set is one of the best investments you can make as a mother. Children are fascinated by the endless possibilities bought upon by an empty pan and visions of their favorite snacks. Hear them humming as they cook hotdogs and eggs on a sizzling pan. Feel your heart melt as they serve you coffee while you work. Pizza is another great favorite. Smart Tip : Choose a child-friendly kitchenware set. Make sure the pieces are large enough to avoid accidentally choking on the pretend food. Watch out for toys that easily break as these may cause scratches or wounds. Block City A two-storey castle with a staircase leading up to the tower. The office building where Papa works. A house with a slide, a pool, and animals wandering about. Go back to the basic and introduce your child to the simple life of older days -- when toys did not move on their own, did not talk, and did not think for themselves Smart Tip : Choose blocks that are affordable, durable, and earth frie...