Love makes us…

Love creates feeling of unity. We feel toward others as we feel towards ourselves. We are as interested in their welfare, happiness, success, health and spiritual growth as much as we are about over own.

Loving others means wanting them to be happy in whatever ways, they are guide to their happiness. It breeds understanding, compassion, forgiveness, happiness, excitement, peace, joy, and fulfillment and desires to be helpful in any way we can. 

Love is expansion beyond our ego limitations. It is the ability to identify with the other, to let go of our self-interest and personal needs enough to really hear and understand the other’s need and interests. It means caring enough to sacrifice, when necessary, our own pleasures and desires when the other’s needs are obviously more important. 

Love is the force that brings about unity and harmony. It is the “glue” of the universe. It helps person with different egos, desires, programming and needs to overcome all those potentially repelling forces and unite. 

Love doesn’t need so much learning or cultivated, but rather released or brought from within us to the surface. We are love. Our basic nature is love. However, our ignorance, fear and attachment have buried it so deeply within us that it is sometimes difficult to summon or maintain. Loving others steadily, independently of their behavior, is not an easy achievement. 

In addition, love is a physical reaction such as the raising of the heartbeats, or the trembling of hands, or the production of adrenaline in the blood. Moreover, of course love is all chemical substances, which are produce in the brain and are in dispensing for our emotional life. 

Is it enough? No, not at all. Love can also be a behavior, strategy to conquer somebody and ability to keep a relationship. In addition, we know that there are different possibilities to conquer someone. We can phone; we can buy presents or gifts such as flowers or chocolates, or compose a song or poetry. We can speak directly with the subject of our love, but we can also avoid all contacts with him or her, perhaps because we are too shy to show our feelings. We can be kind, nice, amiable, affable, but also cold, reserved, suspicious. In love it is possible to see almost all behavior, all emotions all physical reactions and all thoughts. For this reason, there are people, who have great difficulty in understanding love.